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Pope Benedict XVI: Love & Truth

May 20, 2010 by Gerard M. Nadal

I must confess that I devour books by Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, now Pope Benedict XVI. He has a style of writing that leaves me feeling as though I have just been on a weekend retreat.

In recent comments to the Roman Rota (The Supreme Court of the Church), the Pope spoke of the role truth plays in relationship to love and the indissolubility of marriage:

“Without truth, charity (love) slides into sentimentalism. Love becomes an empty shell to be filled arbitrarily. This is the fatal risk of love in a culture without truth.”

Sex and marriage are not our own inventions, toys, or roles. We don’t each have our own rules that we make up as we go along. The truth of the matter is that God has a wise design for His creation, and yes, there are plenty of rules that are a part of that wise design to protect the holiness of marriage and marital union.

For our own sake, our love is most authentic when it is an expression of God’s eternal truths and not a grotesque sentimentalist shadow.

St. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 13, “In the end, three things remain: Faith, Hope, and Love, and the greatest of these is Love.”

The authentic Love of which both St. Paul and Pope Benedict speak begins with Faith. Lived faith. Practiced faith.

That faith then fills us with Hope, without which couples have no basis for facing an uncertain future together. And as Paul tells us, our Hope will not leave us disappointed.

That’s because Faith and Hope are the soil in which Love grows and comes to fruition, blessing us with its fruits of fidelity and belonging, of simultaneously defining ourselves by giving and receiving the gift of self. Love enables us to know ourselves and to perfect ourselves through daily acts of faith and hope, which are the driving force behind devotion.

And these acts of devotion, of love, drive out all fear, as St. Paul tells us.

Of course, none of this is possible without the truth of which Pope Benedict speaks. That truth is this:

We are fearfully and wonderfully made by God, and for a purpose. That purpose is nothing less than eternal life with Him, after learning to love here on our Pilgrimage far from Home. He has given us the tools to learn love, our sex and sexuality being a large part of that.

Recognition of our complementarity in marriage is the key to mutual submission, which is an icon into the radical self-donation between the Father and the Son. In our radical self-donation, we generate and nurture new life, which is the iconic window into the inner life of the Blessed Trinity, as the radical reciprocity between Father and Son generates the Holy Spirit.

We come to know ourselves in relation to God by imitating the inner life of God, the life of the Trinity.

That is the great truth and dignity of or love. That is the foundational reality of a culture of life and a civilization of Love. That is what our efforts in the pro-life movement must ultimately have as their goal, nothing less than a civilization of Love.

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  1. on May 21, 2010 at 12:57 PM myrtle miller

    That is so true. And that is so true what St. Paul said about love driving out fear. I think this is because real love if it is not sabatoged or aborted sooner or later has to mature. And at some point sacrificial love becomes a part of the picture of love. A picture of sacrificial love in my opinion is when a couple reach their later years in life and care for each other. My belief is that love that has evolved into sacrificial love involves time and effort on the part of the giver and anything that we truly work or labor for we will fight for. And I think that is what drives the fear away. These observations are so far from eloquent. But the bible says that because of the work of Christ we can speak with plainess of speech. I think as humans we know real love gets us out of our comfort zone. It requires something of us. So we love, we fuss about the fact that we are required to love, we rest and then we love again. We love when we build hospitals. We love when we rescue. We love when we deny ourselves. And if we are Christians when love cost us more than we think it should we immerse ourselves in our Savior who is love.


  2. on December 29, 2010 at 4:33 AM Lionheart

    To obey religiously the catechisms of the Catholic Church, it’s doctrines and sacraments, is very sanctifying to our homes, families, and societies.

    Disobedience to the Catholic doctrines, leads to many evils in our morals and societies, and has destroyed many homes and relationships.

    Return then to the basic, for the world have proven that the Catholic Church with all it’s faults, still is standing, still is fighting, still is victorious against the evils of the World, the Flesh, and the Devil…



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