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Authentic Feminism

June 13, 2010 by Gerard M. Nadal

This weekend, Jill Stanek asks the question: How do you define feminism?

The backdrop is fifty years of radical, pro-abort feminist philosophy which targets family and children as the major obstacle to women’s advancement, and which holds sacred the “right” to abortion (52+ Million), and chemical contraception as the great leveling of the playing field with men. One of the readers, Robert, made an apologia for abortion rights and had that apologia matched by Michelle, who today has thundered the most authentic feminist formulation I have ever heard. Hers is a response for the ages.

Robert

Where are women’s “rights” if the government is going to decree that they must all give birth if they happen to be pregnant even if they lack the means to take care of those unborn children or a pregnancy would either kill them or ruin their helath? Some freedom and equality.

Michelle

Yeah, we know, Robert.

Women can’t.

We can’t help it if we “happen to be pregnant.” It just happens to us through none of our own devices. We’re victims- we just wake up pregnant one day, no idea how it happened to us, and we need you and your friends with poison and scalpels to rescue us from our pesky uninvited uterine hitchhikers.

Women can’t.

We can’t choose to not create babies when we’re not in a good position to raise them. We can’t control ourselves, or make good decisions before we make babies. (Oh sorry, forgot for a sec, we don’t make babies, we “happen” them. Or they “happen” us, since we’re the victims.)

We get it. Women can’t.

We can’t, even when we “happen to be pregnant” at inconvenient times, solve problems, can’t work harder, can’t get help from others, can’t adapt our dreams, can’t wait for later, can’t be selfless, can’t try new ideas. All we can do is poison or dismember to try to survive.

We can’t be equal to men without the availablity of abortion. We are victims, incapable of taking responsibility for our own actions. Our bodies are inferior to yours, and we resent the dreaded possibility that we may “happen” to be invaded by life-destroying, health-ravaging fetal homo-sapiens. We need you to level the playing field for us with violence and chemicals.

What would we do without you, Robert?

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  1. on June 13, 2010 at 3:43 PM Michelle

    Hi Dr Nadal! :o)

    The first “than” in the last paragraph should have been a “to”- Robert got my adrenalin going, and I would have proof-read myself if I thought I would be quoted! :o)

    There’s a story behind my post.

    I was at a pro-life demonstration a few weeks ago. It was an evening candle-lit walk through our city in rememberance of an unspeakable number of unborn children lost to abortion. It was a beautiful evening when young and old gathered together to say: this grieves us- we are impoverished by the loss of these children and the pain that has come to their mothers, their families and our state, and we want to help make it stop.

    I fully intended to participate in the walk portion of the evening, until I was side-tracked. While hundreds of walkers assembled peacefully in the courtyard of a large church, fourteen (exactly, I counted) angry, disrespectful persons assembled outside the church property and with a few obscene signs, a handful of wire coathangers, and a megaphone, proceeded to try to disrupt the event.

    At first, I tried to ignore them. I asked people in the courtyard to pray for them. But while a church leader spoke to the peaceful families assembling to walk, this little band of misfits were screaming the same stale, untrue slogans that I’ve heard a thousand times before.

    I was trying to stay away, but the one that really got me going was “Pro-life, that’s a lie- you don’t care if women die!”

    I was surrounded by many people I knew, including a doctor who helps women with no health insurance by delivering their babies for free; famillies who have opened their homes to pregnant teens kicked out by their own parents when they refused to abort; foster parents and adoptive parents; pastors who had organized baby gear drives for single mums; business owners who had donated time and services for pregnant mothers in crisis; and many more caring, pro-life people who certainly do care if women die- and not just the born ones, even if caring comes at considerably more personal sacrifice than screaming at strangers at an event you weren’t invited to attend.

    And then there’s me. I have the utmost privilege of serving the women of my city full-time by coordinating an amazing team of (almost exclusively female) volunteers. Together, we offer free, compassionate care to women in crisis pregnancies, including pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, advice from midwives and nurses, crisis accomodation, parenting classes, baby and maternity gear and post-abortion trauma support. We rescue women from the brink of despair and offer them hope, help and real choices so that they can find the strength to protect and nourish their babies. We offer life-affirming solutions when all they have been offered so far is discouragement and death.

    So that blog post was right out of the discussion I had with three of those fourteen misguided troublemakers that night. I approached them by asking for a rational, adult discussion instead of screaming lies, and they stopped yelling long enough to talk to me.

    I heard lots of memorized straw-(wo)man arguments from them, and I kept coming back to the fact that I think their lives are more precious than even they think they are.

    I said that I felt it would have been a tragedy if their mothers had aborted them while they were in the womb, contrary to their pro-choice position, which claims that their mothers’ abortion of them would have been empowering and didn’t need justifying. Whether, I’m right or you’re right on this point, I said, you still would have died. That saddens me and I would have protected you, while you want to celebrate and protect your mother’s right to have killed you.

    I said that while pro-choice says “women can’t,” pro-life says that WE CAN. We CAN choose to love, even when it hurts. We CAN find innovative solutions to our problems. We CAN put the interests of others ahead of our own. We CAN, as individuals, and couples, and families and communities, find a way to care for both mother and child.

    And at the beginning, before the baby is made, we CAN control our urges and make wise choices. We don’t need abortion- we need self control, support and the strength to stand up to the nay-sayers. Above all, we need self-respect. As Feminists for Life so succintly state, we should refuse to choose because we deserve better than abortion.

    I said, you are saying that women CAN’T be equal to men unless we have access to chemicals or surgery to have our pregnancies destroyed. I said I believe we ARE equal to men already- exactly as we are, fertile uterus and all. If pregnancy makes our lives harder, it’s a sign that society, not biology, needs to change.

    After all, I believe pregnancy is a sacred and essential task, and a privilege, not a burden, but one that we can choose to take up of our own free will, based on our personal life choices. I am totally pro-choice as long as your choices don’t infringe on someone else’s.

    So I missed the walking portion of the evening. I did, however, exchange contact details with one of the young women, with promises to continue the discussion over coffee at a later date.

    I jumped into a car and made it to the end point a few minutes before the peaceful crowd of walkers arrived. I’m sorry I missed the opportunity to walk through my city, arm in arm with hundreds of my caring, pro-woman AND pro-child brothers and sisters, but I think I perhaps accomplished more by staying behind.

    I CAN speak the truth in love, and when all is said and done, love will win.


  2. on June 13, 2010 at 3:53 PM JoAnna

    Wow, Michelle, your words are incredible! Do you have a blog?


  3. on June 13, 2010 at 4:30 PM Gerard M. Nadal

    Michelle,

    I’m running between appointments. Happy to edit for you. More later.

    God Love Ya!!


  4. on June 13, 2010 at 4:56 PM Faith On The High Wire

    Dr. G — great post

    Michelle — you stayed right where you were supposed to be. Don’t lament not making the march through your city; you left the footprint on the hearts of those who listened to you! Excellent work!


  5. on June 13, 2010 at 7:58 PM Gerard M. Nadal

    Michelle,

    Your addressing the pro-aborts was without a doubt more efficacious than having been just one more face in the crowd. You chose wisely.

    I want to make a counter-demonstration sign that appropriates the coat hanger with the red circle and slash through it. I also want the same red circle and slash through a scalpel, forceps, suction curette, RU 486 pak, etc. All on one sign.

    Marvelous writing today!!


  6. on June 14, 2010 at 7:44 AM Nulono

    In high school, I participated in the Pro-life Day of Silent Solidarity. I now wish I had instead spoken up and shown I was able to defend my positions. I frankly think that reading up on the facts and the arguments is more effective than marches. After all, we have a march as big as the March on Washington every year and have seen little progress. We’re a plurality know, and if we hold dialogs instead of marches I’m sure we can reach critical mass.

    Well put, Michelle. The neofeminist position holds that women are inferior to men unless they are allowed to solve their problems with violence. I also agree that pregnancy is a privilege. I’ve seen women talk about how happy it makes them to feel their children moving around, and occasionally it makes me sad that there’s a whole range of experiences shut to me because of my Y chromosome.


  7. on June 14, 2010 at 11:05 AM Mary Catherine

    “If pregnancy makes our lives harder, it’s a sign that society, not biology, needs to change. ”

    This is the focal point of the argument isn’t it?
    This is what the feminists have missed entirely.

    They thought they would change society by changing women’s biology. They were right but in a way no one could ever have predicted and in a way that defeminized women and therefore, hurt them.

    What “new feminism” is saying is that society itself needs to change – not women’s biology.

    The question now, is how to undo the damage done to women and society? How to undo the contraceptive mentality that is at the root of abortion, promiscuous sex, divorce and the rotten culture of death?



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